"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Telling a girl you love her while having sex..

MattR1984

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I KNOW I don't love this girl, she's a plate I see once every week or two for the past 3 months. I was drunk, on a Norco and the sex was feeling amazing and I told her that. She didn't say it back thankfully! She started kissing me very intimately afterwards.

I didn't bring it up after sex, hoping it would go away and she didn't bring it up thankfully! I know she will eventually regardless of her being drunk also. So my question is what kind of a mind f.ck is this to a girl when you tell them that while having sex. Hopefully she thinks I was just drunk etc and didn't mean it. Maybe saying it while sexing them makes it worse with the intimate connection happening in the moment. Guess I'll see.

Two drunk mistakes this week already. I need to lay off the booze! Oh well. Off to work!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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blind_one

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It will only be as big as you make it, its not a big deal, you were both drunk and in heat of the moment, just relax and if she brings it up just react :

" Did I really ? Wow must have been one drink too much that night "
Or something along these lines.

Don't sweat it.
 

miketan70

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If she didn't respond, or said that after, I don't think you should think about that. Maybe she didn't even realized what you said lol
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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