Telling a girl that you want to kiss her; pretty much a lost cause?

[NewGuy72]

Was hanging with this girl, and a couple other people. I leaned in to tell her something and I could tell that she thought I was doing something else. I asked her later if she thought I was gonna kiss her, which of course she thought (not surprising since we flirt a lot, but didn't want to do it in front of those guys, for reasons I don't want to go into). I then told her I've thought about it but never did (for the previously mentioned reasons, didn't tell her what they were).

Not that all this matters much since I won't be living near her for much longer (less than a week), but I wouldn't mind actually kissing her before then (I know we're hanging out again). You guys think this is a lost cause? She already knows I like her (obviously) and she appears to like me (though she is still with some guy, but it sounds pretty sketchy).

 

[Ice882]

Listen to Nike and Just Do It.

 

[IKO69]

Yeah don't ask. It just seems so cheesy. If you were asking to please pass the ketchup that's one thing but a kiss is so much different.

 

[scrouds]

Newguy, you're not a lost cause, just need some work.

just kiss her already. If you need to know before you go, touching her face or her hair and she doesn't object to that, you should be good to move in for the kiss.

 

[Waking Up]

Yes. Just do it seriously it's easy. Brush up against her and touch her a bit on the side, kinda hold her, use light kino if she doesn't object slowly move in. It's easier when laying down for this explanation but it works standing too. Slowly move your face into her kinda smile get her to smile too, then wiggle your nose into her and crack up. then move your mouth a bit down up to hers and she'll ease herself and you'll begin kissing.

That's what I did recently and it worked like a charm.

 

[mpimpin]

Listen to these guys and give it a shot. If she doesn't want to kiss she will back away.
Actions speak louder then words

 

[mpimpin]

Double post