"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Telling a girl that you want to kiss her; pretty much a lost cause?

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Was hanging with this girl, and a couple other people. I leaned in to tell her something and I could tell that she thought I was doing something else. I asked her later if she thought I was gonna kiss her, which of course she thought (not surprising since we flirt a lot, but didn't want to do it in front of those guys, for reasons I don't want to go into). I then told her I've thought about it but never did (for the previously mentioned reasons, didn't tell her what they were).

Not that all this matters much since I won't be living near her for much longer (less than a week), but I wouldn't mind actually kissing her before then (I know we're hanging out again). You guys think this is a lost cause? She already knows I like her (obviously) and she appears to like me (though she is still with some guy, but it sounds pretty sketchy).
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ice882

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Listen to Nike and Just Do It.
 
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Yeah don't ask. It just seems so cheesy. If you were asking to please pass the ketchup that's one thing but a kiss is so much different.
 
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Newguy, you're not a lost cause, just need some work.

just kiss her already. If you need to know before you go, touching her face or her hair and she doesn't object to that, you should be good to move in for the kiss.
 
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Yes. Just do it seriously it's easy. Brush up against her and touch her a bit on the side, kinda hold her, use light kino if she doesn't object slowly move in. It's easier when laying down for this explanation but it works standing too. Slowly move your face into her kinda smile get her to smile too, then wiggle your nose into her and crack up. then move your mouth a bit down up to hers and she'll ease herself and you'll begin kissing.

That's what I did recently and it worked like a charm.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Listen to these guys and give it a shot. If she doesn't want to kiss she will back away.
Actions speak louder then words
 
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