"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Telling a gal you like her without going AFC

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Need some pointers on this, obviously the main one is kino and kissing but this is for a gal online who you only speak to on the phone/msn/text

i wanna tell her i like her, but dont wanna sound afc, or even better i wanna know if she likes me and not give away the fact i like her, anything i could ask or say to do this?

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Buy her a diamond necklace. Spend at least $1000.
 

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Originally posted by Jizz
...i wanna tell her i like her, but dont wanna sound afc, or even better i wanna know if she likes me and not give away the fact i like her, anything i could ask or say to do this?...
don't

how do you know you like her? how can you know you like her? you're on the internet. internet don't count, only face to face does. you can't know didly based on the internet, that's just a fantasy you're grooving on

get off the internet and get together with her in person, that's when you'll get real info

tell her by eye contact, smiling, etc.
she'll do something similar

but then, ask why you find it so important for the next step to be to tell her you like her and you want to see reciprocation?

think about that for the moment.

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Ok, doubt you did take time to think about that for the moment, so just the way you phrase it makes it sound you're following the well well-grooved AFC trail down into Let's-Be-Friends Valley (aka Death Valley aka Lonely Wanker Valley aka Sad Puppy Howling At the Moon Valley aka...)

Sure - at some point you give indication you like them (eye contact, smiling, asking them for a date, etc.) and they give indication to you (smiling, eye contact, saying yes to a date) but this "I like you, do you like me?" is for kids.
 

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I have met her and she is intrested, but some other guy wants her too who lives closer to her than me, shes reluctant to meet up with me again atm because of lack of money but i need to get ahead of this other guy,

how do i let her know im intrested in more than just hooking up with her? how do i let her know im a better option than this other guy
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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your still thinking afc

go out, make mistakes, come back in a couple years
 
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