"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Telling a gal you like her without going AFC

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Jizz

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Need some pointers on this, obviously the main one is kino and kissing but this is for a gal online who you only speak to on the phone/msn/text

i wanna tell her i like her, but dont wanna sound afc, or even better i wanna know if she likes me and not give away the fact i like her, anything i could ask or say to do this?

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Buy her a diamond necklace. Spend at least $1000.
 

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Originally posted by Jizz
...i wanna tell her i like her, but dont wanna sound afc, or even better i wanna know if she likes me and not give away the fact i like her, anything i could ask or say to do this?...
don't

how do you know you like her? how can you know you like her? you're on the internet. internet don't count, only face to face does. you can't know didly based on the internet, that's just a fantasy you're grooving on

get off the internet and get together with her in person, that's when you'll get real info

tell her by eye contact, smiling, etc.
she'll do something similar

but then, ask why you find it so important for the next step to be to tell her you like her and you want to see reciprocation?

think about that for the moment.

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Ok, doubt you did take time to think about that for the moment, so just the way you phrase it makes it sound you're following the well well-grooved AFC trail down into Let's-Be-Friends Valley (aka Death Valley aka Lonely Wanker Valley aka Sad Puppy Howling At the Moon Valley aka...)

Sure - at some point you give indication you like them (eye contact, smiling, asking them for a date, etc.) and they give indication to you (smiling, eye contact, saying yes to a date) but this "I like you, do you like me?" is for kids.
 

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I have met her and she is intrested, but some other guy wants her too who lives closer to her than me, shes reluctant to meet up with me again atm because of lack of money but i need to get ahead of this other guy,

how do i let her know im intrested in more than just hooking up with her? how do i let her know im a better option than this other guy
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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your still thinking afc

go out, make mistakes, come back in a couple years
 
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