"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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rsaini

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i've seen all the VH1 pUa videos, and keep reading stuff here too...well apparently girls like stories. Now its kinda difficult to come up with a genuine story everytime u meet a new girl. So can u guys suggest some random stories or at least some hot topics on which i can fake stories?
i like the one used by VH1 PUA contestants - "did u see the fight outside, two girls fighting over a guy named gorge, it was crazy. In the end one ripped the other's freakin top off!" lol
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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1. You obviously don't know anything about the Mystery Method.

2. I wouldn't recommend you learning this stuff to begin with because the whole method is based on faking.

Read some posts by Derek Flint. That will get you thinking...
 

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ChrizZ said:
1. You obviously don't know anything about the Mystery Method.

2. I wouldn't recommend you learning this stuff to begin with because the whole method is based on faking.

Read some posts by Derek Flint. That will get you thinking...
I use it. I don't fake it, or at least not anymore than these so called DJ's. Mystery Method is a model, what you put into it is your call, do you use two girls fighting outside or a situational opener with the same intention. Do you use Jealous GF or ask about something real currently happening to a friend of yours, or happened some time ago but still makes for a decent conversational opener. MM is useful, 90% of the stuff posted on these boards is self-deluded crap that just doesn't cut it outside.

To the OP, MM is not about "telling stories," thats a surefire way to start boring people, its to give you a chance to talk to someone without the frame of wanting her or hitting on her, and its a tool to indirectly show off your attractive qualities without coming off as bragging. If you want openers to use in conversation, just google some stuff or check out the mASF boards, there's a ton there, but if you have a decent social circle I'm sure you can think of something to use yourself.
 

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MVPlaya said:
I use it. I don't fake it, or at least not anymore than these so called DJ's. Mystery Method is a model, what you put into it is your call, do you use two girls fighting outside or a situational opener with the same intention. Do you use Jealous GF or ask about something real currently happening to a friend of yours, or happened some time ago but still makes for a decent conversational opener. MM is useful, 90% of the stuff posted on these boards is self-deluded crap that just doesn't cut it outside.

To the OP, MM is not about "telling stories," thats a surefire way to start boring people, its to give you a chance to talk to someone without the frame of wanting her or hitting on her, and its a tool to indirectly show off your attractive qualities without coming off as bragging. If you want openers to use in conversation, just google some stuff or check out the mASF boards, there's a ton there, but if you have a decent social circle I'm sure you can think of something to use yourself.
I never said MM didn't work. It does work. It's not my cup of tea though because it leaves me angry and frustrated if I don't succeed.

rsaini: I would recommend you to read the "Venusian Arts Handbook" if you decide to follow the path of the MM although I'm against it.
 

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is it available online somewhere for free?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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