"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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i've seen all the VH1 pUa videos, and keep reading stuff here too...well apparently girls like stories. Now its kinda difficult to come up with a genuine story everytime u meet a new girl. So can u guys suggest some random stories or at least some hot topics on which i can fake stories?
i like the one used by VH1 PUA contestants - "did u see the fight outside, two girls fighting over a guy named gorge, it was crazy. In the end one ripped the other's freakin top off!" lol
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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1. You obviously don't know anything about the Mystery Method.

2. I wouldn't recommend you learning this stuff to begin with because the whole method is based on faking.

Read some posts by Derek Flint. That will get you thinking...
 

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ChrizZ said:
1. You obviously don't know anything about the Mystery Method.

2. I wouldn't recommend you learning this stuff to begin with because the whole method is based on faking.

Read some posts by Derek Flint. That will get you thinking...
I use it. I don't fake it, or at least not anymore than these so called DJ's. Mystery Method is a model, what you put into it is your call, do you use two girls fighting outside or a situational opener with the same intention. Do you use Jealous GF or ask about something real currently happening to a friend of yours, or happened some time ago but still makes for a decent conversational opener. MM is useful, 90% of the stuff posted on these boards is self-deluded crap that just doesn't cut it outside.

To the OP, MM is not about "telling stories," thats a surefire way to start boring people, its to give you a chance to talk to someone without the frame of wanting her or hitting on her, and its a tool to indirectly show off your attractive qualities without coming off as bragging. If you want openers to use in conversation, just google some stuff or check out the mASF boards, there's a ton there, but if you have a decent social circle I'm sure you can think of something to use yourself.
 

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MVPlaya said:
I use it. I don't fake it, or at least not anymore than these so called DJ's. Mystery Method is a model, what you put into it is your call, do you use two girls fighting outside or a situational opener with the same intention. Do you use Jealous GF or ask about something real currently happening to a friend of yours, or happened some time ago but still makes for a decent conversational opener. MM is useful, 90% of the stuff posted on these boards is self-deluded crap that just doesn't cut it outside.

To the OP, MM is not about "telling stories," thats a surefire way to start boring people, its to give you a chance to talk to someone without the frame of wanting her or hitting on her, and its a tool to indirectly show off your attractive qualities without coming off as bragging. If you want openers to use in conversation, just google some stuff or check out the mASF boards, there's a ton there, but if you have a decent social circle I'm sure you can think of something to use yourself.
I never said MM didn't work. It does work. It's not my cup of tea though because it leaves me angry and frustrated if I don't succeed.

rsaini: I would recommend you to read the "Venusian Arts Handbook" if you decide to follow the path of the MM although I'm against it.
 

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is it available online somewhere for free?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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