"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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i've seen all the VH1 pUa videos, and keep reading stuff here too...well apparently girls like stories. Now its kinda difficult to come up with a genuine story everytime u meet a new girl. So can u guys suggest some random stories or at least some hot topics on which i can fake stories?
i like the one used by VH1 PUA contestants - "did u see the fight outside, two girls fighting over a guy named gorge, it was crazy. In the end one ripped the other's freakin top off!" lol
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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1. You obviously don't know anything about the Mystery Method.

2. I wouldn't recommend you learning this stuff to begin with because the whole method is based on faking.

Read some posts by Derek Flint. That will get you thinking...
 

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ChrizZ said:
1. You obviously don't know anything about the Mystery Method.

2. I wouldn't recommend you learning this stuff to begin with because the whole method is based on faking.

Read some posts by Derek Flint. That will get you thinking...
I use it. I don't fake it, or at least not anymore than these so called DJ's. Mystery Method is a model, what you put into it is your call, do you use two girls fighting outside or a situational opener with the same intention. Do you use Jealous GF or ask about something real currently happening to a friend of yours, or happened some time ago but still makes for a decent conversational opener. MM is useful, 90% of the stuff posted on these boards is self-deluded crap that just doesn't cut it outside.

To the OP, MM is not about "telling stories," thats a surefire way to start boring people, its to give you a chance to talk to someone without the frame of wanting her or hitting on her, and its a tool to indirectly show off your attractive qualities without coming off as bragging. If you want openers to use in conversation, just google some stuff or check out the mASF boards, there's a ton there, but if you have a decent social circle I'm sure you can think of something to use yourself.
 

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MVPlaya said:
I use it. I don't fake it, or at least not anymore than these so called DJ's. Mystery Method is a model, what you put into it is your call, do you use two girls fighting outside or a situational opener with the same intention. Do you use Jealous GF or ask about something real currently happening to a friend of yours, or happened some time ago but still makes for a decent conversational opener. MM is useful, 90% of the stuff posted on these boards is self-deluded crap that just doesn't cut it outside.

To the OP, MM is not about "telling stories," thats a surefire way to start boring people, its to give you a chance to talk to someone without the frame of wanting her or hitting on her, and its a tool to indirectly show off your attractive qualities without coming off as bragging. If you want openers to use in conversation, just google some stuff or check out the mASF boards, there's a ton there, but if you have a decent social circle I'm sure you can think of something to use yourself.
I never said MM didn't work. It does work. It's not my cup of tea though because it leaves me angry and frustrated if I don't succeed.

rsaini: I would recommend you to read the "Venusian Arts Handbook" if you decide to follow the path of the MM although I'm against it.
 

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is it available online somewhere for free?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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