"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Looking for a laundry list of phrases/actions that girls do that has you know.. that you're in the dreaded zone.

I am looking to compile a list for a document I am writing, looking for people's input, would be appreciated.

I know of a few.


1. She calls you/you call her all the time.

2. She uses you as a emotional tampon. "Oh, my b/f does blah blah."

3. Talks about other guys she is interested in.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I never really had thought to keep a list.

The only indication that I use to know that I am in the friend zone is when she treats me like a friend on "her terms" and not my terms...

It's not bad to be friends with girls, just make sure that the girls know through your actions that 'friendship is earned' and that they can blow that at any time by the way they treat you.
 
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1. Not fvcking her.
2. Not fvcking her.
3. Not fvcking her.
4. Seeing her underwear, and not fvcking her.
 
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Originally posted by rgeere
I never really had thought to keep a list.
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I think its more or less a good thing to have.. that way you aren't falling into the traps.

You see the list.. and you can see what to avoid, at all costs.
 
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No, actually I don't see it as important because I only make friends with girls on my terms, meaning that there is going to be sex involved. Otherwise I just blow the girl off or use her as social proof; no way in sams hell am I going to be friends with a girl on solely her terms.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by JasonR
1. Not fvcking her.
2. Not fvcking her.
3. Not fvcking her.
4. Seeing her underwear, and not fvcking her.
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Actually, its quite possible to be friends with a girl and fvcking her socks off. It's what they call a fvck-buddy or sometimes within an LTR. It's just that with a fvck-buddy or LTR you both have decided that sex is going to happen along with some sort of friendship or just sex.
 
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