Hi there guys,we all know u get ur high and lows from time to time but what do u normaly do when u feel a bit off?how do u get urself back..being positive,****y funny attitude,etc?like for Ex. Do u play a bon jovi cd,lift a few weights?lol thanx
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Tell me
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Mysterious_Learner
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I just get myself outside of the house and do some walking (and thinking) alone until I'm sort of back on track. But I guess the thing is ... that it takes more than just that to really be back to positive. I don't know what exactly, though ... since I still have a long way to go in this journey of mine.Jakes21 said:
PS: Don't try the ****y/funny attitude unless it naturally suits you.
just got thru a really low period where I was very sick. I always get depressed when I'm ill. I just tell myself that this will pass. I usually workout, evaluate my plans, go shopping for new equipment or clothes, hang out with my boys and get plenty of sunshine. Staying in the house always makes it worse.
Also spending time with my kid is the best pick-me-up ever.
Also spending time with my kid is the best pick-me-up ever.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
For me its SARGIN . Whenever i feel down , couple approaches , coupe conversations with strangers and im ON again .
Also , calling a f buddy helps too
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Also , calling a f buddy helps too
."So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.