"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Jakes21

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Hi there guys,we all know u get ur high and lows from time to time but what do u normaly do when u feel a bit off?how do u get urself back..being positive,****y funny attitude,etc?like for Ex. Do u play a bon jovi cd,lift a few weights?lol thanx
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Jakes21 said:
Hi there guys,we all know u get ur high and lows from time to time but what do u normaly do when u feel a bit off?how do u get urself back..being positive,****y funny attitude,etc?like for Ex. Do u play a bon jovi cd,lift a few weights?lol thanx
I just get myself outside of the house and do some walking (and thinking) alone until I'm sort of back on track. But I guess the thing is ... that it takes more than just that to really be back to positive. I don't know what exactly, though ... since I still have a long way to go in this journey of mine.

PS: Don't try the ****y/funny attitude unless it naturally suits you.
 

Warrior74

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just got thru a really low period where I was very sick. I always get depressed when I'm ill. I just tell myself that this will pass. I usually workout, evaluate my plans, go shopping for new equipment or clothes, hang out with my boys and get plenty of sunshine. Staying in the house always makes it worse.

Also spending time with my kid is the best pick-me-up ever.
 

immrtlwun

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Working out definitely helps me. I either lift or run when I get down. Like warrior said, just get out of the house and do something.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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