"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Well, I phoned this girl out and asked her if she wanted to go see a movie with me Saturday, we decide on the movie and time, and all is fine.

Today, she emails me, asking me if it was a date or a friendly outing, then tells me that she's always really nervous around me, without really knowing why.

So, what should I answer ? I wanted something more mysterious or funny than "yes, it is a date", sort of like "Hmmm, I guess you'll just have to wait and find out," but I'm not really sure about this one.

Anyways, this girl is giving me really positive signals, so I know she has a high interest level .... (and she thinks I'm hot :D) lol, so, what should I answer ?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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JudgementDay

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I would go with the "you'll have to wait and find out answer", it'll drive her nuts;)
 
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LMAO ! Well, I reply with that, and a few minutes later, she sends me another email saying "Now I really want to know !" lol


CATCHING ! :D

Thanks !
 
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Mysterious is always VERY SEXY for women. Definitly choose the mysterious one.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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That was perfect. Always try to come off as mysterious. By telling her it's either a date or not, you're taking away all the excitement. By telling her that, you made her think about it more, and made her more interested. If she's nervous, use humor to your advantage. Make her laugh and feel more comfortable around you.
 
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