"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well, I phoned this girl out and asked her if she wanted to go see a movie with me Saturday, we decide on the movie and time, and all is fine.

Today, she emails me, asking me if it was a date or a friendly outing, then tells me that she's always really nervous around me, without really knowing why.

So, what should I answer ? I wanted something more mysterious or funny than "yes, it is a date", sort of like "Hmmm, I guess you'll just have to wait and find out," but I'm not really sure about this one.

Anyways, this girl is giving me really positive signals, so I know she has a high interest level .... (and she thinks I'm hot :D) lol, so, what should I answer ?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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JudgementDay

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I would go with the "you'll have to wait and find out answer", it'll drive her nuts;)
 
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LMAO ! Well, I reply with that, and a few minutes later, she sends me another email saying "Now I really want to know !" lol


CATCHING ! :D

Thanks !
 
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Mysterious is always VERY SEXY for women. Definitly choose the mysterious one.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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That was perfect. Always try to come off as mysterious. By telling her it's either a date or not, you're taking away all the excitement. By telling her that, you made her think about it more, and made her more interested. If she's nervous, use humor to your advantage. Make her laugh and feel more comfortable around you.
 
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