"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Tell me what I already know bros (this new girl)

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in another interesting twist of events ..

she texts me randomly this morning "good morning" i wait like 6 hours to respond (wasn't going to but couldn't resist) ...we have some witty back and forth banter .. then she says she's going to NYC for new years and invites me to go with her

i said "sure, why wait until new years though, we should get together this week" .. she agreed and we made plans for tomorrow night back at my place....

rofl

i can't wait to see my d1ck disappearing in that big ass of hers ... i got my napkin tucked and im ready to eat bros!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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icantgetlaid said:
in another interesting twist of events ..

she texts me randomly this morning "good morning" i wait like 6 hours to respond (wasn't going to but couldn't resist) ...we have some witty back and forth banter .. then she says she's going to NYC for new years and invites me to go with her

i said "sure, why wait until new years though, we should get together this week" .. she agreed and we made plans for tomorrow night back at my place....

rofl

i can't wait to see my d1ck disappearing in that big ass of hers ... i got my napkin tucked and im ready to eat bros!
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Don't count your chickens before they hatch...if she actually follows through, consider it a bonus, but don't expect it.
 
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^^^Right, keep your head in the game. Some women will go surprisingly far to reel you into orbit.

You did good by going ghost, it made her chase. I'm not saying you should expect a same night lay, but after you've done your job making moves she needs to reciprocate or get tossed aside. Continue the filtering process.
 
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Poon King said:
Remember men.. assume EVERY woman you meet is a slut.
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I must say, even though people will take this the wrong way, I am finding this is more and more the case. And I personally dont MIND if a woman is my slvt. Or wh0re. But it is like this quite often - even with a 'quality' woman.
 
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i got stood up .. SMH .. no sweat .. whatever .. should have taken another posters advice and ignored any attempt on her part to reach out .. i got big brown ass blinders on ... lesson learned bros .. lesson learned
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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