"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I believe if you get a match on Tinder, you have a better chance of getting a date and the woman's attention than other OLD sites.

On other OLD sites, women get overwhelmed with the 200 messages a day they receive. Women don't use Tinder like men do. They are way more selective when swiping right. So when there is a match you have a better shot of something coming out of it.
You sure about that. I once did an experiment where I posed as an actual male model that was huge but not too known. Even when matched the success rate wasn't that high. Even when gotten the digits the success rate wasn't high either. I never met any more these chicks but just wanted to practice some text game.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You sure about that. I once did an experiment where I posed as an actual male model that was huge but not too known. Even when matched the success rate wasn't that high. Even when gotten the digits the success rate wasn't high either. I never met any more these chicks but just wanted to practice some text game.
Unlike most dating sites tinder girls tend to be more realistic and will have a catfish guard up if the guy is a 9 and she's a 6. There have been a few times where I get the girls number, ask for the date then suddenly she asks for snapchat/facetime because it turns out she thinks I'm a catfish. Either that or your text game is so bad that you couldn't get the girl even if you looked like a made model haha.
 

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Unlike most dating sites tinder girls tend to be more realistic and will have a catfish guard up if the guy is a 9 and she's a 6. There have been a few times where I get the girls number, ask for the date then suddenly she asks for snapchat/facetime because it turns out she thinks I'm a catfish. Either that or your text game is so bad that you couldn't get the girl even if you looked like a made model haha.
My text game is fine. I only bothered to text the 8 and above chicks. I ignored the rest. My belief is most girls that are 8 and above on Tinder is mostly there for validation. A few 7 got hooked easily and I started to develop a conscience so I stopped.

My question to you sir is why are you messaging the 6's if you're so hot?
 

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My text game is fine. I only bothered to text the 8 and above chicks. I ignored the rest. My belief is most girls that are 8 and above on Tinder is mostly there for validation. A few 7 got hooked easily and I started to develop a conscience so I stopped.

My question to you sir is why are you messaging the 6's if you're so hot?
You're right about the 8+ girls. There are some 10's with their instagram account linked (so you know they're real) and you can't help but wonder why they're even on tinder, it's not like they're a guy.

I once posted myself on that dreaded /rateme reddit and I got mostly 8/10 ratings. I message anything 6.5+ to improve dating game or practice, I'm sure you know what I mean.
 

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You're right about the 8+ girls. There are some 10's with their instagram account linked (so you know they're real) and you can't help but wonder why they're even on tinder, it's not like they're a guy.

I once posted myself on that dreaded /rateme reddit and I got mostly 8/10 ratings. I message anything 6.5+ to improve dating game or practice, I'm sure you know what I mean.
It's fine but the 6/7 are easier to game then the 8/9/10. The 8+ **** test more. It's good for a little practice but you need to game the 8+.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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