You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You sure about that. I once did an experiment where I posed as an actual male model that was huge but not too known. Even when matched the success rate wasn't that high. Even when gotten the digits the success rate wasn't high either. I never met any more these chicks but just wanted to practice some text game.I believe if you get a match on Tinder, you have a better chance of getting a date and the woman's attention than other OLD sites.
On other OLD sites, women get overwhelmed with the 200 messages a day they receive. Women don't use Tinder like men do. They are way more selective when swiping right. So when there is a match you have a better shot of something coming out of it.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Unlike most dating sites tinder girls tend to be more realistic and will have a catfish guard up if the guy is a 9 and she's a 6. There have been a few times where I get the girls number, ask for the date then suddenly she asks for snapchat/facetime because it turns out she thinks I'm a catfish. Either that or your text game is so bad that you couldn't get the girl even if you looked like a made model haha.You sure about that. I once did an experiment where I posed as an actual male model that was huge but not too known. Even when matched the success rate wasn't that high. Even when gotten the digits the success rate wasn't high either. I never met any more these chicks but just wanted to practice some text game.
My text game is fine. I only bothered to text the 8 and above chicks. I ignored the rest. My belief is most girls that are 8 and above on Tinder is mostly there for validation. A few 7 got hooked easily and I started to develop a conscience so I stopped.Unlike most dating sites tinder girls tend to be more realistic and will have a catfish guard up if the guy is a 9 and she's a 6. There have been a few times where I get the girls number, ask for the date then suddenly she asks for snapchat/facetime because it turns out she thinks I'm a catfish. Either that or your text game is so bad that you couldn't get the girl even if you looked like a made model haha.
You're right about the 8+ girls. There are some 10's with their instagram account linked (so you know they're real) and you can't help but wonder why they're even on tinder, it's not like they're a guy.My text game is fine. I only bothered to text the 8 and above chicks. I ignored the rest. My belief is most girls that are 8 and above on Tinder is mostly there for validation. A few 7 got hooked easily and I started to develop a conscience so I stopped.
My question to you sir is why are you messaging the 6's if you're so hot?
It's fine but the 6/7 are easier to game then the 8/9/10. The 8+ **** test more. It's good for a little practice but you need to game the 8+.You're right about the 8+ girls. There are some 10's with their instagram account linked (so you know they're real) and you can't help but wonder why they're even on tinder, it's not like they're a guy.
I once posted myself on that dreaded /rateme reddit and I got mostly 8/10 ratings. I message anything 6.5+ to improve dating game or practice, I'm sure you know what I mean.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.