Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You sure about that. I once did an experiment where I posed as an actual male model that was huge but not too known. Even when matched the success rate wasn't that high. Even when gotten the digits the success rate wasn't high either. I never met any more these chicks but just wanted to practice some text game.I believe if you get a match on Tinder, you have a better chance of getting a date and the woman's attention than other OLD sites.
On other OLD sites, women get overwhelmed with the 200 messages a day they receive. Women don't use Tinder like men do. They are way more selective when swiping right. So when there is a match you have a better shot of something coming out of it.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Unlike most dating sites tinder girls tend to be more realistic and will have a catfish guard up if the guy is a 9 and she's a 6. There have been a few times where I get the girls number, ask for the date then suddenly she asks for snapchat/facetime because it turns out she thinks I'm a catfish. Either that or your text game is so bad that you couldn't get the girl even if you looked like a made model haha.You sure about that. I once did an experiment where I posed as an actual male model that was huge but not too known. Even when matched the success rate wasn't that high. Even when gotten the digits the success rate wasn't high either. I never met any more these chicks but just wanted to practice some text game.
My text game is fine. I only bothered to text the 8 and above chicks. I ignored the rest. My belief is most girls that are 8 and above on Tinder is mostly there for validation. A few 7 got hooked easily and I started to develop a conscience so I stopped.Unlike most dating sites tinder girls tend to be more realistic and will have a catfish guard up if the guy is a 9 and she's a 6. There have been a few times where I get the girls number, ask for the date then suddenly she asks for snapchat/facetime because it turns out she thinks I'm a catfish. Either that or your text game is so bad that you couldn't get the girl even if you looked like a made model haha.
You're right about the 8+ girls. There are some 10's with their instagram account linked (so you know they're real) and you can't help but wonder why they're even on tinder, it's not like they're a guy.My text game is fine. I only bothered to text the 8 and above chicks. I ignored the rest. My belief is most girls that are 8 and above on Tinder is mostly there for validation. A few 7 got hooked easily and I started to develop a conscience so I stopped.
My question to you sir is why are you messaging the 6's if you're so hot?
It's fine but the 6/7 are easier to game then the 8/9/10. The 8+ **** test more. It's good for a little practice but you need to game the 8+.You're right about the 8+ girls. There are some 10's with their instagram account linked (so you know they're real) and you can't help but wonder why they're even on tinder, it's not like they're a guy.
I once posted myself on that dreaded /rateme reddit and I got mostly 8/10 ratings. I message anything 6.5+ to improve dating game or practice, I'm sure you know what I mean.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.