When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You sure about that. I once did an experiment where I posed as an actual male model that was huge but not too known. Even when matched the success rate wasn't that high. Even when gotten the digits the success rate wasn't high either. I never met any more these chicks but just wanted to practice some text game.I believe if you get a match on Tinder, you have a better chance of getting a date and the woman's attention than other OLD sites.
On other OLD sites, women get overwhelmed with the 200 messages a day they receive. Women don't use Tinder like men do. They are way more selective when swiping right. So when there is a match you have a better shot of something coming out of it.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Unlike most dating sites tinder girls tend to be more realistic and will have a catfish guard up if the guy is a 9 and she's a 6. There have been a few times where I get the girls number, ask for the date then suddenly she asks for snapchat/facetime because it turns out she thinks I'm a catfish. Either that or your text game is so bad that you couldn't get the girl even if you looked like a made model haha.You sure about that. I once did an experiment where I posed as an actual male model that was huge but not too known. Even when matched the success rate wasn't that high. Even when gotten the digits the success rate wasn't high either. I never met any more these chicks but just wanted to practice some text game.
My text game is fine. I only bothered to text the 8 and above chicks. I ignored the rest. My belief is most girls that are 8 and above on Tinder is mostly there for validation. A few 7 got hooked easily and I started to develop a conscience so I stopped.Unlike most dating sites tinder girls tend to be more realistic and will have a catfish guard up if the guy is a 9 and she's a 6. There have been a few times where I get the girls number, ask for the date then suddenly she asks for snapchat/facetime because it turns out she thinks I'm a catfish. Either that or your text game is so bad that you couldn't get the girl even if you looked like a made model haha.
You're right about the 8+ girls. There are some 10's with their instagram account linked (so you know they're real) and you can't help but wonder why they're even on tinder, it's not like they're a guy.My text game is fine. I only bothered to text the 8 and above chicks. I ignored the rest. My belief is most girls that are 8 and above on Tinder is mostly there for validation. A few 7 got hooked easily and I started to develop a conscience so I stopped.
My question to you sir is why are you messaging the 6's if you're so hot?
It's fine but the 6/7 are easier to game then the 8/9/10. The 8+ **** test more. It's good for a little practice but you need to game the 8+.You're right about the 8+ girls. There are some 10's with their instagram account linked (so you know they're real) and you can't help but wonder why they're even on tinder, it's not like they're a guy.
I once posted myself on that dreaded /rateme reddit and I got mostly 8/10 ratings. I message anything 6.5+ to improve dating game or practice, I'm sure you know what I mean.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.