"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Tell her I had a dream about her?

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Hey I know this girl at university and I want her to start thinking of me in a sexual way, should I tell her this story of a dream I had?

"We were both walking around university in the middle of the night and we go to one of the classrooms to do an assignment. We struggle on a problem while and eventually solve it, then we both turn look each other in the eyes and then I kissed you. So we kiss each other for along time and when I open my eyes we are standing in the middle of an open field in our underwear surrounded by people and they're all smiling at us. Then I woke up."

I can handle negative critisicm just as long as it's constructive. I want to start planting ideas of us being together in her mind. What do you all think? I know this isn't really SS, but it can be classified as an "unusual technique".

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I wouldn't tell her. Maybe it's just me but telling her about a dream you had seems a little corny, no offense. Also, considering the nature of the dream, she might think you're being a little obvious. Then again, it might depend on how long/how well you know her.
 
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Originally posted by am4591
I wouldn't tell her. Maybe it's just me but telling her about a dream you had seems a little corny, no offense. Also, considering the nature of the dream, she might think you're being a little obvious. Then again, it might depend on how long/how well you know her.
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No offense taken. Thanks for the response. The more I thought about the idea the more I realsied it wasn't such a good idea. How about things like asking her if she remebers her first kiss? Where she was, how it felt etc.?
 
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