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Tell her I had a dream about her?

Santos

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Hey I know this girl at university and I want her to start thinking of me in a sexual way, should I tell her this story of a dream I had?

"We were both walking around university in the middle of the night and we go to one of the classrooms to do an assignment. We struggle on a problem while and eventually solve it, then we both turn look each other in the eyes and then I kissed you. So we kiss each other for along time and when I open my eyes we are standing in the middle of an open field in our underwear surrounded by people and they're all smiling at us. Then I woke up."

I can handle negative critisicm just as long as it's constructive. I want to start planting ideas of us being together in her mind. What do you all think? I know this isn't really SS, but it can be classified as an "unusual technique".

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I wouldn't tell her. Maybe it's just me but telling her about a dream you had seems a little corny, no offense. Also, considering the nature of the dream, she might think you're being a little obvious. Then again, it might depend on how long/how well you know her.
 

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Originally posted by am4591
I wouldn't tell her. Maybe it's just me but telling her about a dream you had seems a little corny, no offense. Also, considering the nature of the dream, she might think you're being a little obvious. Then again, it might depend on how long/how well you know her.
No offense taken. Thanks for the response. The more I thought about the idea the more I realsied it wasn't such a good idea. How about things like asking her if she remebers her first kiss? Where she was, how it felt etc.?
 
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