"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Tell her I had a dream about her?

Santos

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Hey I know this girl at university and I want her to start thinking of me in a sexual way, should I tell her this story of a dream I had?

"We were both walking around university in the middle of the night and we go to one of the classrooms to do an assignment. We struggle on a problem while and eventually solve it, then we both turn look each other in the eyes and then I kissed you. So we kiss each other for along time and when I open my eyes we are standing in the middle of an open field in our underwear surrounded by people and they're all smiling at us. Then I woke up."

I can handle negative critisicm just as long as it's constructive. I want to start planting ideas of us being together in her mind. What do you all think? I know this isn't really SS, but it can be classified as an "unusual technique".

Thanks
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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am4591

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I wouldn't tell her. Maybe it's just me but telling her about a dream you had seems a little corny, no offense. Also, considering the nature of the dream, she might think you're being a little obvious. Then again, it might depend on how long/how well you know her.
 

Santos

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Originally posted by am4591
I wouldn't tell her. Maybe it's just me but telling her about a dream you had seems a little corny, no offense. Also, considering the nature of the dream, she might think you're being a little obvious. Then again, it might depend on how long/how well you know her.
No offense taken. Thanks for the response. The more I thought about the idea the more I realsied it wasn't such a good idea. How about things like asking her if she remebers her first kiss? Where she was, how it felt etc.?
 
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