"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Tell her I had a dream about her?

Santos

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Hey I know this girl at university and I want her to start thinking of me in a sexual way, should I tell her this story of a dream I had?

"We were both walking around university in the middle of the night and we go to one of the classrooms to do an assignment. We struggle on a problem while and eventually solve it, then we both turn look each other in the eyes and then I kissed you. So we kiss each other for along time and when I open my eyes we are standing in the middle of an open field in our underwear surrounded by people and they're all smiling at us. Then I woke up."

I can handle negative critisicm just as long as it's constructive. I want to start planting ideas of us being together in her mind. What do you all think? I know this isn't really SS, but it can be classified as an "unusual technique".

Thanks
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I wouldn't tell her. Maybe it's just me but telling her about a dream you had seems a little corny, no offense. Also, considering the nature of the dream, she might think you're being a little obvious. Then again, it might depend on how long/how well you know her.
 

Santos

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Originally posted by am4591
I wouldn't tell her. Maybe it's just me but telling her about a dream you had seems a little corny, no offense. Also, considering the nature of the dream, she might think you're being a little obvious. Then again, it might depend on how long/how well you know her.
No offense taken. Thanks for the response. The more I thought about the idea the more I realsied it wasn't such a good idea. How about things like asking her if she remebers her first kiss? Where she was, how it felt etc.?
 
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