"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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improvinmygame

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After one week of reading articles on this website and taking notes and becoming a student of women I took it out to the field. I went "shopping for cologne" and asked an attractive blonde for her assistance and "which one do you like better?" After that, I noticed she wasn't real quick to leave the area, so I asked if she lived in the area, what did she do, and what did she like to do in her off time. She replied, "anything." So I quipped, "well, would you like to go out for coffee somtime?" She replied, "yes" and immediately went for the pen and paper! I got her phone number, told her I would give her a call. It was so easy! My fellow DJs please be encourage. I'm just an average guy with average looks who took a chance. The result: the phone number of a pretty good looking blonde. My life has changed today.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DonJoey

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Easy isnt it when you stop worrying about the simple stuff.
Like a joke, picking up is in the delivery.
 

BigBill

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Great work man.

My hat's off to you. Now comes the really confusing part, what to do AFTER you have all these girls' numbers. Thats when it gets tricky. the approach is all about knowing a few simple rules and having the balls to go out and do it. the real challenge (and all the fun) comes next!

Good luck and congratz!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Don the Legend

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Good Job improvinmygame.

Keep it up!

Legend

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"We are coming after you. God may have mercy on you, but we won't," declared Sen. John McCain, R-Arizona.

"I have always believed that when a man gets it into his head to do something, and when he exclusively occupies himself in that design, he must succeed, whatever the difficulties. That man will become Grand Vizier or Pope"..... Casanova

"You are what you are, You are where you are, by what goes into your mind, you can change what you are, you can change where you are by changing what goes into your mind" ....Zig Ziglar
 

Neophyte

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Now he's tha man!
Cya,
Neo
 

Don Phenom

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Great work man! keep it up

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Don Phenom-Unphasable, you couldn't make me lose my cool if you set me on fire. I will not lose!
 

ilikemackin

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Good job man.
Funny story I did the same thing as you but I walked around the mall asking girl's if they like OMD or D&G, thats when I just started to, I was still a chicken then.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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