"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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After one week of reading articles on this website and taking notes and becoming a student of women I took it out to the field. I went "shopping for cologne" and asked an attractive blonde for her assistance and "which one do you like better?" After that, I noticed she wasn't real quick to leave the area, so I asked if she lived in the area, what did she do, and what did she like to do in her off time. She replied, "anything." So I quipped, "well, would you like to go out for coffee somtime?" She replied, "yes" and immediately went for the pen and paper! I got her phone number, told her I would give her a call. It was so easy! My fellow DJs please be encourage. I'm just an average guy with average looks who took a chance. The result: the phone number of a pretty good looking blonde. My life has changed today.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DonJoey

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Easy isnt it when you stop worrying about the simple stuff.
Like a joke, picking up is in the delivery.
 
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BigBill

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Great work man.

My hat's off to you. Now comes the really confusing part, what to do AFTER you have all these girls' numbers. Thats when it gets tricky. the approach is all about knowing a few simple rules and having the balls to go out and do it. the real challenge (and all the fun) comes next!

Good luck and congratz!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Don the Legend

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Good Job improvinmygame.

Keep it up!

Legend

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"We are coming after you. God may have mercy on you, but we won't," declared Sen. John McCain, R-Arizona.

"I have always believed that when a man gets it into his head to do something, and when he exclusively occupies himself in that design, he must succeed, whatever the difficulties. That man will become Grand Vizier or Pope"..... Casanova

"You are what you are, You are where you are, by what goes into your mind, you can change what you are, you can change where you are by changing what goes into your mind" ....Zig Ziglar
 
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Now he's tha man!
Cya,
Neo
 
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Don Phenom

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Great work man! keep it up

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Don Phenom-Unphasable, you couldn't make me lose my cool if you set me on fire. I will not lose!
 
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Good job man.
Funny story I did the same thing as you but I walked around the mall asking girl's if they like OMD or D&G, thats when I just started to, I was still a chicken then.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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