"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Teasing C+F became addicting to this HB9, HELP.

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omgwtfm8

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I've been talking/dating/seeing a HB9 for a couple weeks now. It's been very chill, our conversations are very funny sarcastic and we joke around a lot. She's a funny girl. I started off since i've met her by teasing her a lot, walk away, telling her "We're in a fight", and do a lot of C+F.

It's getting to the point where naturally that's all I do. I can't help myself when i get on the phone, I'm always teasing her. It seems addicting because she's always laughing with me, pushing, pinching me, and other playful things back.

The other day I was teasing her again while we were hooking up. I was pulling me head away a little when we were kissing, and i kept teasing and repeating. She called me an a$$hole with her eyes closed and continued to chase my lips. ADDICTING...

Well it's coming to the point where I don't know when to compliment her or just relax on the C+F. It just seems like everytime I pick up the phone, I'll have something "smart" to say. And our conversations seems like a power struggle leading her into frustration.

I'm in a bad trend. I need to get out of it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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GloriouslyInsane

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Dude just don't see her that often,lay down the c+f when you do,and fvck her.Rinse and repeat.
 
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How to stop an addiction. Lean off. Catch yourself in the act, and force yourself to play fair for a short amount of time, and lengthen it as you progess with self control. It's nice to lay down C&F, but too much is too much when she starts asking you to be real for once.
 
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Same here with this one chick i talk to. Now it seems like we can't have a normal convo without shyttin on each other.

But I'm already in the process of rebuilding. So I'm aight
 
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omgwtfm8

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Bigg Boss said:
Same here with this one chick i talk to. Now it seems like we can't have a normal convo without shyttin on each other.

But I'm already in the process of rebuilding. So I'm aight
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Well... What are you doing to rebuild?

Dude just don't see her that often.
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I'm going to give space, so things will be more exciting. She hasn't called me yet before. It's always me calling her. I'm kinda waiting to see she'll actually call me. That a bad idea? Do some women just not like to call at all?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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omgwtfm8 said:
I'm going to give space, so things will be more exciting. She hasn't called me yet before. It's always me calling her. I'm kinda waiting to see she'll actually call me. That a bad idea? Do some women just not like to call at all?
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unless she's ur Gf or she is insanely into you, dont expect her to call. most girls these days are tricked into thinking it's the guys job to call. why do we have to do all the work anyway?

but i would lay off the CF alittle bit. try finding something u like about her and compliment it. talk about something u both care about etc. build a connection, this will help u seem more real to her.

CF is all good, but too much can make her see u as not BF material, and more as entertainment, her personal clown. and u dont want that do u?
 
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