"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Teasing C+F became addicting to this HB9, HELP.

omgwtfm8

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I've been talking/dating/seeing a HB9 for a couple weeks now. It's been very chill, our conversations are very funny sarcastic and we joke around a lot. She's a funny girl. I started off since i've met her by teasing her a lot, walk away, telling her "We're in a fight", and do a lot of C+F.

It's getting to the point where naturally that's all I do. I can't help myself when i get on the phone, I'm always teasing her. It seems addicting because she's always laughing with me, pushing, pinching me, and other playful things back.

The other day I was teasing her again while we were hooking up. I was pulling me head away a little when we were kissing, and i kept teasing and repeating. She called me an a$$hole with her eyes closed and continued to chase my lips. ADDICTING...

Well it's coming to the point where I don't know when to compliment her or just relax on the C+F. It just seems like everytime I pick up the phone, I'll have something "smart" to say. And our conversations seems like a power struggle leading her into frustration.

I'm in a bad trend. I need to get out of it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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GloriouslyInsane

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Dude just don't see her that often,lay down the c+f when you do,and fvck her.Rinse and repeat.
 

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How to stop an addiction. Lean off. Catch yourself in the act, and force yourself to play fair for a short amount of time, and lengthen it as you progess with self control. It's nice to lay down C&F, but too much is too much when she starts asking you to be real for once.
 

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Same here with this one chick i talk to. Now it seems like we can't have a normal convo without shyttin on each other.

But I'm already in the process of rebuilding. So I'm aight
 

omgwtfm8

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Bigg Boss said:
Same here with this one chick i talk to. Now it seems like we can't have a normal convo without shyttin on each other.

But I'm already in the process of rebuilding. So I'm aight
Well... What are you doing to rebuild?

Dude just don't see her that often.
I'm going to give space, so things will be more exciting. She hasn't called me yet before. It's always me calling her. I'm kinda waiting to see she'll actually call me. That a bad idea? Do some women just not like to call at all?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Raikojo17

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omgwtfm8 said:
I'm going to give space, so things will be more exciting. She hasn't called me yet before. It's always me calling her. I'm kinda waiting to see she'll actually call me. That a bad idea? Do some women just not like to call at all?

unless she's ur Gf or she is insanely into you, dont expect her to call. most girls these days are tricked into thinking it's the guys job to call. why do we have to do all the work anyway?

but i would lay off the CF alittle bit. try finding something u like about her and compliment it. talk about something u both care about etc. build a connection, this will help u seem more real to her.

CF is all good, but too much can make her see u as not BF material, and more as entertainment, her personal clown. and u dont want that do u?
 
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