"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Teasing C+F became addicting to this HB9, HELP.

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omgwtfm8

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I've been talking/dating/seeing a HB9 for a couple weeks now. It's been very chill, our conversations are very funny sarcastic and we joke around a lot. She's a funny girl. I started off since i've met her by teasing her a lot, walk away, telling her "We're in a fight", and do a lot of C+F.

It's getting to the point where naturally that's all I do. I can't help myself when i get on the phone, I'm always teasing her. It seems addicting because she's always laughing with me, pushing, pinching me, and other playful things back.

The other day I was teasing her again while we were hooking up. I was pulling me head away a little when we were kissing, and i kept teasing and repeating. She called me an a$$hole with her eyes closed and continued to chase my lips. ADDICTING...

Well it's coming to the point where I don't know when to compliment her or just relax on the C+F. It just seems like everytime I pick up the phone, I'll have something "smart" to say. And our conversations seems like a power struggle leading her into frustration.

I'm in a bad trend. I need to get out of it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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GloriouslyInsane

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Dude just don't see her that often,lay down the c+f when you do,and fvck her.Rinse and repeat.
 
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How to stop an addiction. Lean off. Catch yourself in the act, and force yourself to play fair for a short amount of time, and lengthen it as you progess with self control. It's nice to lay down C&F, but too much is too much when she starts asking you to be real for once.
 
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Same here with this one chick i talk to. Now it seems like we can't have a normal convo without shyttin on each other.

But I'm already in the process of rebuilding. So I'm aight
 
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omgwtfm8

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Bigg Boss said:
Same here with this one chick i talk to. Now it seems like we can't have a normal convo without shyttin on each other.

But I'm already in the process of rebuilding. So I'm aight
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Well... What are you doing to rebuild?

Dude just don't see her that often.
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I'm going to give space, so things will be more exciting. She hasn't called me yet before. It's always me calling her. I'm kinda waiting to see she'll actually call me. That a bad idea? Do some women just not like to call at all?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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omgwtfm8 said:
I'm going to give space, so things will be more exciting. She hasn't called me yet before. It's always me calling her. I'm kinda waiting to see she'll actually call me. That a bad idea? Do some women just not like to call at all?
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unless she's ur Gf or she is insanely into you, dont expect her to call. most girls these days are tricked into thinking it's the guys job to call. why do we have to do all the work anyway?

but i would lay off the CF alittle bit. try finding something u like about her and compliment it. talk about something u both care about etc. build a connection, this will help u seem more real to her.

CF is all good, but too much can make her see u as not BF material, and more as entertainment, her personal clown. and u dont want that do u?
 
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