"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Tea For One

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Right, so, as I pause..and wait, on the tedious process of Military Police recruitment, I've grabbed a gig at the local mall.

So basically, picture Starbucks, though, instead of the coffee/lattes being dished out, we pump you full of tea. B!tchin'. Anyhow, it's a jazzy, hip, new joint that has establishments all across Canaduh.

I start Monday, and after years of security/physical labour/outdoor gigs, I'm now chained to the inner workings of behind the counter.

Now, I'm assuming attractive women of all ages will be making appearances, and with more vigour, as time nears Christmas. My question to you guys is: Those who have worked in a Starbucks-esque environment; any advice on flirting 'safely' with the female consumer? Any gestures, remarks, body language, even subtle kino, I could apply in a fun 'customer experience' demeanour?

*Note: So far, to the best of my observations, I'll be working beside HB3-5's.

*Oh, anyone who answer correctly where the title of this thread came from, fvckin' tea on the house~!~!!~
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Uh, mostly gays work in those places. Haven't you heard the saying, "As rare as a straight man who works at Starbucks"? Secondly, nobody is looking to pickup a barista unless it is a gay dude. I would be cautious. I am sure many gay men will have their eyes on you.

Something tells me that most on here don't get it. "IT" is that females want a guy with power or money. That is a turn on for girls of any age.
 
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Big Jimbo is trolling the OP :down:

OP, feel free to flirt with women in a friendly, non-creepy manner, as long as you're friendly and respectful to men as well. Nobody likes the guy who flirts with women and treats men like dirt.

You should be 50% friendly/fun, 20% flirtatious, and 30% coolly competent, IMHO, with the women. With the men you should be 33% friendly and 67% coolly competent. If you play it right and you have regulars, you could become quite popular with regular female clientele. Now, turning those into lays is a whole 'nother topic.

Treat the men with respect and the women like you're in love with them, and you will go far with customer service.
 
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