"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Tea For One

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Right, so, as I pause..and wait, on the tedious process of Military Police recruitment, I've grabbed a gig at the local mall.

So basically, picture Starbucks, though, instead of the coffee/lattes being dished out, we pump you full of tea. B!tchin'. Anyhow, it's a jazzy, hip, new joint that has establishments all across Canaduh.

I start Monday, and after years of security/physical labour/outdoor gigs, I'm now chained to the inner workings of behind the counter.

Now, I'm assuming attractive women of all ages will be making appearances, and with more vigour, as time nears Christmas. My question to you guys is: Those who have worked in a Starbucks-esque environment; any advice on flirting 'safely' with the female consumer? Any gestures, remarks, body language, even subtle kino, I could apply in a fun 'customer experience' demeanour?

*Note: So far, to the best of my observations, I'll be working beside HB3-5's.

*Oh, anyone who answer correctly where the title of this thread came from, fvckin' tea on the house~!~!!~
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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BigJimbo

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Uh, mostly gays work in those places. Haven't you heard the saying, "As rare as a straight man who works at Starbucks"? Secondly, nobody is looking to pickup a barista unless it is a gay dude. I would be cautious. I am sure many gay men will have their eyes on you.

Something tells me that most on here don't get it. "IT" is that females want a guy with power or money. That is a turn on for girls of any age.
 

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Big Jimbo is trolling the OP :down:

OP, feel free to flirt with women in a friendly, non-creepy manner, as long as you're friendly and respectful to men as well. Nobody likes the guy who flirts with women and treats men like dirt.

You should be 50% friendly/fun, 20% flirtatious, and 30% coolly competent, IMHO, with the women. With the men you should be 33% friendly and 67% coolly competent. If you play it right and you have regulars, you could become quite popular with regular female clientele. Now, turning those into lays is a whole 'nother topic.

Treat the men with respect and the women like you're in love with them, and you will go far with customer service.
 
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