"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Taxi Cab Confessions

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Today I had the privilage of sitting next to a fine looking young thing on a taxi. She was wearing the shortest little skirt with the somoothest little legs. whlie she sat i was in the middle of two lovely ladies, the one on my right being extreemly hotter tho. Anyway, while she was sitting i noticed she was leaning toward me so that her sexy legs rubed against mine. The whole time in the 10 minuet cab ride she was glanceing at me whenever she got the chance. I was finally picking up on her signials and was about to initiate conversation but alas it was my stop and I was just hopeing for one more trafic light so i could pull it off but it was to late I hesitated.

The point is i always know what to say to meet girls in clubs get togethers social events gyms and church ect. but when it came to in that taxi i was a bit hesitant at first but when i finally made up my mind it was too late. The time in which i also had to do it caused me to hesitate a bit also because I didn't know if i'd have the time to get the number and get out. So in light of this I just was wondering some good conversation opners you guys would suggest for meeting girls in cabs that would lead to digits. THANKS...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Your hesitating because you care to much about the outcome of the situation.

If you didn't care then you would of thought something like "Here i
am sitting inbetween two hot chicks, i'm going to start conversation and see what happens"


This was also a situation that you weren't accustomed to talking to chicks in so that might of freaked u out a bit too...no big deal though

Just remeber next time to say something over nothing even if it's just hi.
 

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ok we've got to get this clear, first stop making excuses for not accomplishing a goal.

That's a form of procrastination.

Just bite the dust and give a damn about the outcome and ask.
 

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Hye that wasn't an excuse, it was a 5 or 10 minuet ride, and by the time i started noticeing her it was really close to my destination. But you know coming to think of it I should have skiped class and traveled a little further and talked to her.
 

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hey you really a trini? My dad is from trinidad beautiful country...


anyways next time you need to make a move, say anything...especially if she was checking you out as much as you say she was
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I am the King!

I am the King of hesitating!
I have missed-out on way too many opportunites because
I hesitated!

"he who hesitates, masturbates!"
 

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Don't worry about it. You had the impulse to speak, you just allowed years of AFC conditioning to stop you.

Don't worry too much about the outcome, as someone said. Even if you don't have time to get digits, you will:

a. Get a confidence boost because you took the plunge
b. Get an even bigger confidence boost if she responds positively
c. get more used to the idea for when another opportunity arises
d. Get noticed by the girl in case you see her again somewhere.
 

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Originally posted by balla
hey you really a trini? My dad is from trinidad beautiful country...


anyways next time you need to make a move, say anything...especially if she was checking you out as much as you say she was
Yeah from trinidad, central chaguanas, what's your dad's name if i know it maybee i can give him a holla. Small country compared to your's so chances are that i might.
 

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Thanks for the advice
 
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