She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
A lot of us don't want pretentious women.No woman with the slightest pretension to elegance or style would touch you with a barge pole!
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Maybe about fifteen, twenty, twenty-five years ago, possibly yes, but now 2013 going on 2014, HELL-TO-NAW. The main thing that attracts chicks to "bad boys," are their contrarian, non-conformist view of society. They're the personification of the Sinatra classic, "My Way." Being a "bad boy," is about attitude, mannerisms, and aura you project. If you think that having a few tats is going to get you more ass, then your sadly mistaken because chicks (with their intuitive selves,) with quickly see through the facade.Scormus said:Discuss please. All else equal, do they help bestow the bad boy vibe that will help me get laid more?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I think you might be surprised how many women actually DO feel that way. But the women who feel that way tend to be trashy.I seriously doubt you could describe ANY situation where NOT having a tat would be THE ONLY deal breaker.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
This. I think tattoos appeal to most women on some level, but I'm not a big fan, or maybe I just have nothing so important in my life that it needs to be permanently etched into my skin.zekko said:I hate tattoos myself. I think they're trashy and find the idea of putting permanent pictures on your body to be idiotic.
That said, I have to admit girls seem to like them. If nothing else, they make for good peacock items/conversation pieces.
It depends on your styling, ages, lifestyle, no body can tell you in advance. Some people are adorable even without hair (bald) and women loves them, some have a lot of hair fancy haircut and don't have too much luck with females. So it is only on you to understand did they fits into your style or you will look silly. Just my (honest) 2 centsScormus said:Discuss please. All else equal, do they help bestow the bad boy vibe that will help me get laid more?