When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
A lot of us don't want pretentious women.No woman with the slightest pretension to elegance or style would touch you with a barge pole!
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Maybe about fifteen, twenty, twenty-five years ago, possibly yes, but now 2013 going on 2014, HELL-TO-NAW. The main thing that attracts chicks to "bad boys," are their contrarian, non-conformist view of society. They're the personification of the Sinatra classic, "My Way." Being a "bad boy," is about attitude, mannerisms, and aura you project. If you think that having a few tats is going to get you more ass, then your sadly mistaken because chicks (with their intuitive selves,) with quickly see through the facade.Scormus said:Discuss please. All else equal, do they help bestow the bad boy vibe that will help me get laid more?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I think you might be surprised how many women actually DO feel that way. But the women who feel that way tend to be trashy.I seriously doubt you could describe ANY situation where NOT having a tat would be THE ONLY deal breaker.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
This. I think tattoos appeal to most women on some level, but I'm not a big fan, or maybe I just have nothing so important in my life that it needs to be permanently etched into my skin.zekko said:I hate tattoos myself. I think they're trashy and find the idea of putting permanent pictures on your body to be idiotic.
That said, I have to admit girls seem to like them. If nothing else, they make for good peacock items/conversation pieces.
It depends on your styling, ages, lifestyle, no body can tell you in advance. Some people are adorable even without hair (bald) and women loves them, some have a lot of hair fancy haircut and don't have too much luck with females. So it is only on you to understand did they fits into your style or you will look silly. Just my (honest) 2 centsScormus said:Discuss please. All else equal, do they help bestow the bad boy vibe that will help me get laid more?