"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Tapping...
- Thread starter Iamnotacrook
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I've been giving this (EFT) a try lately. Not for inner game yet, but for other things. I havent noticed anything yet, though, but its super easy, and free, so I figured it's worth a try.
Also, this should be in the anything else section.
Also, this should be in the anything else section.
Iamnotacrook
Senior Don Juan
Not really, it's supposed to help you program over non-desirable emotions. If it works, I'd say it's a great tip. I'll be trying the thing myself next time I get embarassed.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Never tried it but i heard great words about it.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
It is worth trying. It basically works on tapping key accuppuncture centres which have blocked energy or emotion. It does recquire persistance and a bit of research. Youtube have some great tips. Magnus has a tapping channel for innergame which takes you through a workshop on clearing issues from any past negative experiences with women. Not many people know about tapping at the moment, it can certainly offer an edge if you are prepared to put in the effort.:flowers: 
MillenniumMike
Don Juan
It seems NLP related. It is anchoring positive emotions to areas you are likely to touch in a pick up related area. So you repeatedly say affirmations and every time you touch that area of your body you are reminded to stay positive or confident.