"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Tapping...
- Thread starter Iamnotacrook
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I've been giving this (EFT) a try lately. Not for inner game yet, but for other things. I havent noticed anything yet, though, but its super easy, and free, so I figured it's worth a try.
Also, this should be in the anything else section.
Also, this should be in the anything else section.
Iamnotacrook
Senior Don Juan
Not really, it's supposed to help you program over non-desirable emotions. If it works, I'd say it's a great tip. I'll be trying the thing myself next time I get embarassed.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Never tried it but i heard great words about it.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
It is worth trying. It basically works on tapping key accuppuncture centres which have blocked energy or emotion. It does recquire persistance and a bit of research. Youtube have some great tips. Magnus has a tapping channel for innergame which takes you through a workshop on clearing issues from any past negative experiences with women. Not many people know about tapping at the moment, it can certainly offer an edge if you are prepared to put in the effort.:flowers: 
MillenniumMike
Don Juan
It seems NLP related. It is anchoring positive emotions to areas you are likely to touch in a pick up related area. So you repeatedly say affirmations and every time you touch that area of your body you are reminded to stay positive or confident.