"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Tapping...
- Thread starter Iamnotacrook
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I've been giving this (EFT) a try lately. Not for inner game yet, but for other things. I havent noticed anything yet, though, but its super easy, and free, so I figured it's worth a try.
Also, this should be in the anything else section.
Also, this should be in the anything else section.
Iamnotacrook
Senior Don Juan
Not really, it's supposed to help you program over non-desirable emotions. If it works, I'd say it's a great tip. I'll be trying the thing myself next time I get embarassed.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Never tried it but i heard great words about it.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
It is worth trying. It basically works on tapping key accuppuncture centres which have blocked energy or emotion. It does recquire persistance and a bit of research. Youtube have some great tips. Magnus has a tapping channel for innergame which takes you through a workshop on clearing issues from any past negative experiences with women. Not many people know about tapping at the moment, it can certainly offer an edge if you are prepared to put in the effort.:flowers: 
MillenniumMike
Don Juan
It seems NLP related. It is anchoring positive emotions to areas you are likely to touch in a pick up related area. So you repeatedly say affirmations and every time you touch that area of your body you are reminded to stay positive or confident.