"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
tanning beds make me feel like im in a microwave. hope you dont have this feeling too.
remember to rotate often.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
What do u mean? So are you saying that it messes up your skin after a while? or what? I might start going with a few friends of mine that also do it, but now I am starting to have 2nd thoughts about it.....TheoTiger said:It will do wonders for your skin...
Had a friend who started hitting the sun bed when he was 16 because of his acne. He is 22 now, but looks like 35...:nono:
Laterz...
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
But women still love it, especially the hotter ones. If you opened a tanning salon in a small town, you would soon meet every hot chick in the town.
I've only ever used them to carefully acquire a 'base tan'...which is not so bad. When done in moderation, tan beds can be a good way to condition sensitive skin (so that you don't burn when you're out in the sun for a long time, for example). Sometimes doctors / dermatologists recommend this to people for various reasons.
As for what to wear...I would suggest covering up the privates. Wear speedos or something. Ya don't want to fry your goodies (plus its more sanitary). Skin that has hardly ever been exposed to any sun - or skin that is naturally more sensitive should be covered, or exposed for only half the time, in my opinion.
Because not all skin on the body was created equally. For example, compare the skin on your nipples to the skin on your arms. Ditto for the one eyed monster.
(I secretly hope that I just made everyone touch themselves).
A few hours after tanning make sure you put on some type of moisturizer, and after getting out of the shower as well.(chlorine will dry up your skin) This is the important part, this is the part that will save your skin in 10-20 years...and this also helps you keep the tan longer.
Also, dont go in the cheapest bed they have, they'll throw you in there for 20 minutes and you'll fry your skin. Shell out the extra money and use one of the better beds, ask them to tell you about there products. Research the tanning salons in your area, ask your friends, or even ask strangers about it...because a lot of places are **** and don't change the lamps in the beds and you are basically wasting your money away.
When first starting out go every other day until you get a base tan, when your satisfied with the tan you have, go every 3-4 days, try not to go more then twice a week. (again if you pay for the cheap ****ty beds, your gonna get a cheap ****ty tan that fade's faster....the more you pay, the better the tan, and the less you have to go)
Going tanning can actually be healthy for your skin if used in moderation, your skin takes in vitamins, and your brain will release endorphin's which will actually make you feel better about yourself.
(oh and about being naked......just take your sock and put it over your more private part's, the skin on your penis is very sensitive and it will get dry and irritated with over exposure.)
diablo
Master Don Juan
http://www.google.com/search?num=100&hl=en&lr=&safe=off&q=tanning+information
This conversation has taken a turn for H&F...
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Shiftkey
Master Don Juan
You should also find tons of info if you do a search in H&F. I know I've contributed to at least a dozen or so of these threads already.diablo said: