"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
tanning
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
tanning beds make me feel like im in a microwave. hope you dont have this feeling too.
remember to rotate often.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
What do u mean? So are you saying that it messes up your skin after a while? or what? I might start going with a few friends of mine that also do it, but now I am starting to have 2nd thoughts about it.....TheoTiger said:It will do wonders for your skin...
Had a friend who started hitting the sun bed when he was 16 because of his acne. He is 22 now, but looks like 35...:nono:
Laterz...
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
But women still love it, especially the hotter ones. If you opened a tanning salon in a small town, you would soon meet every hot chick in the town.
I've only ever used them to carefully acquire a 'base tan'...which is not so bad. When done in moderation, tan beds can be a good way to condition sensitive skin (so that you don't burn when you're out in the sun for a long time, for example). Sometimes doctors / dermatologists recommend this to people for various reasons.
As for what to wear...I would suggest covering up the privates. Wear speedos or something. Ya don't want to fry your goodies (plus its more sanitary). Skin that has hardly ever been exposed to any sun - or skin that is naturally more sensitive should be covered, or exposed for only half the time, in my opinion.
Because not all skin on the body was created equally. For example, compare the skin on your nipples to the skin on your arms. Ditto for the one eyed monster.
(I secretly hope that I just made everyone touch themselves).
A few hours after tanning make sure you put on some type of moisturizer, and after getting out of the shower as well.(chlorine will dry up your skin) This is the important part, this is the part that will save your skin in 10-20 years...and this also helps you keep the tan longer.
Also, dont go in the cheapest bed they have, they'll throw you in there for 20 minutes and you'll fry your skin. Shell out the extra money and use one of the better beds, ask them to tell you about there products. Research the tanning salons in your area, ask your friends, or even ask strangers about it...because a lot of places are **** and don't change the lamps in the beds and you are basically wasting your money away.
When first starting out go every other day until you get a base tan, when your satisfied with the tan you have, go every 3-4 days, try not to go more then twice a week. (again if you pay for the cheap ****ty beds, your gonna get a cheap ****ty tan that fade's faster....the more you pay, the better the tan, and the less you have to go)
Going tanning can actually be healthy for your skin if used in moderation, your skin takes in vitamins, and your brain will release endorphin's which will actually make you feel better about yourself.
(oh and about being naked......just take your sock and put it over your more private part's, the skin on your penis is very sensitive and it will get dry and irritated with over exposure.)
diablo
Master Don Juan
http://www.google.com/search?num=100&hl=en&lr=&safe=off&q=tanning+information
This conversation has taken a turn for H&F...
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Shiftkey
Master Don Juan
You should also find tons of info if you do a search in H&F. I know I've contributed to at least a dozen or so of these threads already.diablo said: