"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
tanning
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
tanning beds make me feel like im in a microwave. hope you dont have this feeling too.
remember to rotate often.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
What do u mean? So are you saying that it messes up your skin after a while? or what? I might start going with a few friends of mine that also do it, but now I am starting to have 2nd thoughts about it.....TheoTiger said:It will do wonders for your skin...
Had a friend who started hitting the sun bed when he was 16 because of his acne. He is 22 now, but looks like 35...:nono:
Laterz...
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
But women still love it, especially the hotter ones. If you opened a tanning salon in a small town, you would soon meet every hot chick in the town.
I've only ever used them to carefully acquire a 'base tan'...which is not so bad. When done in moderation, tan beds can be a good way to condition sensitive skin (so that you don't burn when you're out in the sun for a long time, for example). Sometimes doctors / dermatologists recommend this to people for various reasons.
As for what to wear...I would suggest covering up the privates. Wear speedos or something. Ya don't want to fry your goodies (plus its more sanitary). Skin that has hardly ever been exposed to any sun - or skin that is naturally more sensitive should be covered, or exposed for only half the time, in my opinion.
Because not all skin on the body was created equally. For example, compare the skin on your nipples to the skin on your arms. Ditto for the one eyed monster.
(I secretly hope that I just made everyone touch themselves).
A few hours after tanning make sure you put on some type of moisturizer, and after getting out of the shower as well.(chlorine will dry up your skin) This is the important part, this is the part that will save your skin in 10-20 years...and this also helps you keep the tan longer.
Also, dont go in the cheapest bed they have, they'll throw you in there for 20 minutes and you'll fry your skin. Shell out the extra money and use one of the better beds, ask them to tell you about there products. Research the tanning salons in your area, ask your friends, or even ask strangers about it...because a lot of places are **** and don't change the lamps in the beds and you are basically wasting your money away.
When first starting out go every other day until you get a base tan, when your satisfied with the tan you have, go every 3-4 days, try not to go more then twice a week. (again if you pay for the cheap ****ty beds, your gonna get a cheap ****ty tan that fade's faster....the more you pay, the better the tan, and the less you have to go)
Going tanning can actually be healthy for your skin if used in moderation, your skin takes in vitamins, and your brain will release endorphin's which will actually make you feel better about yourself.
(oh and about being naked......just take your sock and put it over your more private part's, the skin on your penis is very sensitive and it will get dry and irritated with over exposure.)
diablo
Master Don Juan
http://www.google.com/search?num=100&hl=en&lr=&safe=off&q=tanning+information
This conversation has taken a turn for H&F...
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Shiftkey
Master Don Juan
You should also find tons of info if you do a search in H&F. I know I've contributed to at least a dozen or so of these threads already.diablo said: