"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Tanning: what to expect?

Eternal

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I've decided to go to a tanning salon, but I was wondering what to expect, since this would be my first time. Any suggestion, tips, things to do?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Start out with a short tanning session, like 5-8 minutes depending on your skin tone. You can go up a couple of minutes each time till you get to 20 minutes or until you're happy with your skin tone. Make sure you get some tanning eye goggles.
 

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Originally posted by Ofus
Make sure you get some tanning eye goggles.
Do they provide them or do you have to buy them somewhere?
 

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They should have some there for you to buy. They cost like $3 or so.
 

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It's ok, I'm dark complected so I can go in my first time for like 20 mins. Oh yeah, put a hand rag over your 'boys' I dont think it really matters if your un-circumcised. Go buy some dark tanning lotion as well. They prob sell it in the salon. Yeah get some goggles.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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