"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Tanning: what to expect?

Eternal

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I've decided to go to a tanning salon, but I was wondering what to expect, since this would be my first time. Any suggestion, tips, things to do?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Start out with a short tanning session, like 5-8 minutes depending on your skin tone. You can go up a couple of minutes each time till you get to 20 minutes or until you're happy with your skin tone. Make sure you get some tanning eye goggles.
 

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Originally posted by Ofus
Make sure you get some tanning eye goggles.
Do they provide them or do you have to buy them somewhere?
 

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They should have some there for you to buy. They cost like $3 or so.
 

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It's ok, I'm dark complected so I can go in my first time for like 20 mins. Oh yeah, put a hand rag over your 'boys' I dont think it really matters if your un-circumcised. Go buy some dark tanning lotion as well. They prob sell it in the salon. Yeah get some goggles.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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