"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Taller then me?

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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SinJester

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If shes hot then who gives a ****. Supermodels are tall. If its not an issue with you, and its not an issue with her, its not an issue.
 

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If she is OK with it.....then screw what everyone thinks. If anything- they are immensely jealous of your catch. I was snogging a girl almost four inches taller than me....and she came back for seconds, thirds, etc.....after breaking up with her linebacker ex-BF. It's NOT AWKWARD.
 

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except when she is 6'8", like a girl I once encountered. I felt kinda bad because I just starred at her in awe and it looked like she was about the cry :eek:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I'm 174cm and it seems a large number of girls I find attractive are at the very least as tall as me (and no the attraction has nothing to do with their height). Maybe it's just the area I'm in or something. it kinda sucks, but whatever.
 

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Bryce556 said:
So this girl im gaming is taller then me? for some reason its weird to me. anyone know what i should do?
cut her feet off and you'll be golden.
 

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you could always try puttin tp in the shoes lol
 

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It's no big deal dude. I'm dating a girl who's about three inches taller than me, and it's not a big deal. Most of the time they are used to guys being shorter than them or at least them same height as them if they are really tall (in this case 6'3")
 

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Take an axe to her knees. :)

I am not into tall chicks regularly, but you obviously like her enough to ask us. I say go after her and damn everybody else.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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what you have to do is say to yourself is "I don't care how tall she is and I don't care what other people think." The main I think reason it probably feels weird is because you think it look weird to other people, and if stop caring bout what other think it won't only help here with this girl, but also you'll be more comfortable in your own skin.
 

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Dont worry bout it man if shes hot and tall its all good
..Besides she prolly is comfortable with it and you are the only one feeling wierd.
 

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I'm 5'6 so most girls are just my height. I don't really like taller women but I let it slide. I do prefer girls that are shorter than me. It's a self-concisions issue of mine.
 
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