"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Taller then me?

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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SinJester

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If shes hot then who gives a ****. Supermodels are tall. If its not an issue with you, and its not an issue with her, its not an issue.
 

Dilberto

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If she is OK with it.....then screw what everyone thinks. If anything- they are immensely jealous of your catch. I was snogging a girl almost four inches taller than me....and she came back for seconds, thirds, etc.....after breaking up with her linebacker ex-BF. It's NOT AWKWARD.
 

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except when she is 6'8", like a girl I once encountered. I felt kinda bad because I just starred at her in awe and it looked like she was about the cry :eek:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I'm 174cm and it seems a large number of girls I find attractive are at the very least as tall as me (and no the attraction has nothing to do with their height). Maybe it's just the area I'm in or something. it kinda sucks, but whatever.
 

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Bryce556 said:
So this girl im gaming is taller then me? for some reason its weird to me. anyone know what i should do?
cut her feet off and you'll be golden.
 

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you could always try puttin tp in the shoes lol
 

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It's no big deal dude. I'm dating a girl who's about three inches taller than me, and it's not a big deal. Most of the time they are used to guys being shorter than them or at least them same height as them if they are really tall (in this case 6'3")
 

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Take an axe to her knees. :)

I am not into tall chicks regularly, but you obviously like her enough to ask us. I say go after her and damn everybody else.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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what you have to do is say to yourself is "I don't care how tall she is and I don't care what other people think." The main I think reason it probably feels weird is because you think it look weird to other people, and if stop caring bout what other think it won't only help here with this girl, but also you'll be more comfortable in your own skin.
 

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Dont worry bout it man if shes hot and tall its all good
..Besides she prolly is comfortable with it and you are the only one feeling wierd.
 

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I'm 5'6 so most girls are just my height. I don't really like taller women but I let it slide. I do prefer girls that are shorter than me. It's a self-concisions issue of mine.
 
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