"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Taller then me?

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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SinJester

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If shes hot then who gives a ****. Supermodels are tall. If its not an issue with you, and its not an issue with her, its not an issue.
 

Dilberto

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If she is OK with it.....then screw what everyone thinks. If anything- they are immensely jealous of your catch. I was snogging a girl almost four inches taller than me....and she came back for seconds, thirds, etc.....after breaking up with her linebacker ex-BF. It's NOT AWKWARD.
 

Create Reality

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except when she is 6'8", like a girl I once encountered. I felt kinda bad because I just starred at her in awe and it looked like she was about the cry :eek:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Master Bates

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I'm 174cm and it seems a large number of girls I find attractive are at the very least as tall as me (and no the attraction has nothing to do with their height). Maybe it's just the area I'm in or something. it kinda sucks, but whatever.
 

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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Bryce556 said:
So this girl im gaming is taller then me? for some reason its weird to me. anyone know what i should do?
cut her feet off and you'll be golden.
 

(JJ)

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you could always try puttin tp in the shoes lol
 

Man Man

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It's no big deal dude. I'm dating a girl who's about three inches taller than me, and it's not a big deal. Most of the time they are used to guys being shorter than them or at least them same height as them if they are really tall (in this case 6'3")
 

Unl1m1t3d

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Take an axe to her knees. :)

I am not into tall chicks regularly, but you obviously like her enough to ask us. I say go after her and damn everybody else.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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hell695

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what you have to do is say to yourself is "I don't care how tall she is and I don't care what other people think." The main I think reason it probably feels weird is because you think it look weird to other people, and if stop caring bout what other think it won't only help here with this girl, but also you'll be more comfortable in your own skin.
 

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Dont worry bout it man if shes hot and tall its all good
..Besides she prolly is comfortable with it and you are the only one feeling wierd.
 

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I'm 5'6 so most girls are just my height. I don't really like taller women but I let it slide. I do prefer girls that are shorter than me. It's a self-concisions issue of mine.
 
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