"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Taller girl.

playerone

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I just got to know this girl online, who's 1 year younger than me. She is 5'9, and i'm like 5'7. We text and talk on the phone as well. Had 2 phone calls so far, 1st one was 1 hr 50 mins, 2nd one is 25 mins. We were hitting well on the 1st so it just went on and on, while i was tired so i cut the 2nd one short.

I asked her to go out next weekend, and she said she'll wear heels. So i played it off as usual like "It's okay i don't mind a bodyguard. You'll stand behind me. Lol."

However, i'm still aware of the problems i'll face, like when i'm talking to her, etc. I got to look up a little, and it may cause discomfort, i don't know. I'm looking to hear from any experienced DJs who has gone out with taller girls, and anything i should look out for.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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WhitePimp

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I had a similar issue and I went out and started wearing shoes that gave me a bit of height (not crazy height but like an extra inch) and that gave me that extra boost I needed to at least feel a bit more confident. Could try that...
 

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Your confidence should not be affected by a womans height. Im 5'9 and went out with girls who were over 6 without even noticing the height difference. This girl is only 2 inches taller than you and your complaining about discomfort ??? WTF ?!!?!?:confused: and you said
"It's okay i don't mind a bodyguard. You'll stand behind me. Lol."
Complete AFC move....Why would you make yourself look weak because of 2 inches. That kinda stuff makes women insecure and further perpetuates the whole "women prefer tall men" BS...its cause you short guys don't know how to be strong.

Time to man up and stop being such a wimp.
 

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You're the man, right? Just think about how at any given moment you can and will throw her on you shoulder and carry her off. But for real, it shouldn't be nothing you can't handle.
 

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i'm 6'1" and met a girl who is 6'4" she was at the party with a guy who is about 6'5". she even told me that night "i'd never date a guy shorter than me"

i ended up pulling that girl, who was sober, by the way, right in front of the guy she came with. she even talked **** about that guy. she kissed me that night. and she texted me the next couple days until i got bored and blew her off.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ucmedv8

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Don't remind her of the fact that you are shorter than her. You're one joke about the height issue should be it. Height may be a preference for many girls, like big t*ts and a round a** is for us dudes. But God knows that we hook up with flat chested chicks and girls with gumby bottoms all the time. The point is that most girls will see past the height issue. I personally try to date girls who are at least my height or taller and if you're a winner then height won't be an issue. I even know some chicks that prefer shorter dudes. Maybe this chick is one of them.
 
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