"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Taller girl.

playerone

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I just got to know this girl online, who's 1 year younger than me. She is 5'9, and i'm like 5'7. We text and talk on the phone as well. Had 2 phone calls so far, 1st one was 1 hr 50 mins, 2nd one is 25 mins. We were hitting well on the 1st so it just went on and on, while i was tired so i cut the 2nd one short.

I asked her to go out next weekend, and she said she'll wear heels. So i played it off as usual like "It's okay i don't mind a bodyguard. You'll stand behind me. Lol."

However, i'm still aware of the problems i'll face, like when i'm talking to her, etc. I got to look up a little, and it may cause discomfort, i don't know. I'm looking to hear from any experienced DJs who has gone out with taller girls, and anything i should look out for.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I had a similar issue and I went out and started wearing shoes that gave me a bit of height (not crazy height but like an extra inch) and that gave me that extra boost I needed to at least feel a bit more confident. Could try that...
 

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Your confidence should not be affected by a womans height. Im 5'9 and went out with girls who were over 6 without even noticing the height difference. This girl is only 2 inches taller than you and your complaining about discomfort ??? WTF ?!!?!?:confused: and you said
"It's okay i don't mind a bodyguard. You'll stand behind me. Lol."
Complete AFC move....Why would you make yourself look weak because of 2 inches. That kinda stuff makes women insecure and further perpetuates the whole "women prefer tall men" BS...its cause you short guys don't know how to be strong.

Time to man up and stop being such a wimp.
 

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You're the man, right? Just think about how at any given moment you can and will throw her on you shoulder and carry her off. But for real, it shouldn't be nothing you can't handle.
 

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i'm 6'1" and met a girl who is 6'4" she was at the party with a guy who is about 6'5". she even told me that night "i'd never date a guy shorter than me"

i ended up pulling that girl, who was sober, by the way, right in front of the guy she came with. she even talked **** about that guy. she kissed me that night. and she texted me the next couple days until i got bored and blew her off.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Don't remind her of the fact that you are shorter than her. You're one joke about the height issue should be it. Height may be a preference for many girls, like big t*ts and a round a** is for us dudes. But God knows that we hook up with flat chested chicks and girls with gumby bottoms all the time. The point is that most girls will see past the height issue. I personally try to date girls who are at least my height or taller and if you're a winner then height won't be an issue. I even know some chicks that prefer shorter dudes. Maybe this chick is one of them.
 
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