"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Taller girl.

playerone

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I just got to know this girl online, who's 1 year younger than me. She is 5'9, and i'm like 5'7. We text and talk on the phone as well. Had 2 phone calls so far, 1st one was 1 hr 50 mins, 2nd one is 25 mins. We were hitting well on the 1st so it just went on and on, while i was tired so i cut the 2nd one short.

I asked her to go out next weekend, and she said she'll wear heels. So i played it off as usual like "It's okay i don't mind a bodyguard. You'll stand behind me. Lol."

However, i'm still aware of the problems i'll face, like when i'm talking to her, etc. I got to look up a little, and it may cause discomfort, i don't know. I'm looking to hear from any experienced DJs who has gone out with taller girls, and anything i should look out for.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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WhitePimp

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I had a similar issue and I went out and started wearing shoes that gave me a bit of height (not crazy height but like an extra inch) and that gave me that extra boost I needed to at least feel a bit more confident. Could try that...
 

Drum&Bass

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Your confidence should not be affected by a womans height. Im 5'9 and went out with girls who were over 6 without even noticing the height difference. This girl is only 2 inches taller than you and your complaining about discomfort ??? WTF ?!!?!?:confused: and you said
"It's okay i don't mind a bodyguard. You'll stand behind me. Lol."
Complete AFC move....Why would you make yourself look weak because of 2 inches. That kinda stuff makes women insecure and further perpetuates the whole "women prefer tall men" BS...its cause you short guys don't know how to be strong.

Time to man up and stop being such a wimp.
 

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You're the man, right? Just think about how at any given moment you can and will throw her on you shoulder and carry her off. But for real, it shouldn't be nothing you can't handle.
 

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i'm 6'1" and met a girl who is 6'4" she was at the party with a guy who is about 6'5". she even told me that night "i'd never date a guy shorter than me"

i ended up pulling that girl, who was sober, by the way, right in front of the guy she came with. she even talked **** about that guy. she kissed me that night. and she texted me the next couple days until i got bored and blew her off.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ucmedv8

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Don't remind her of the fact that you are shorter than her. You're one joke about the height issue should be it. Height may be a preference for many girls, like big t*ts and a round a** is for us dudes. But God knows that we hook up with flat chested chicks and girls with gumby bottoms all the time. The point is that most girls will see past the height issue. I personally try to date girls who are at least my height or taller and if you're a winner then height won't be an issue. I even know some chicks that prefer shorter dudes. Maybe this chick is one of them.
 
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