"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm 5'9 and pretty comfortable with my height. Was wondering though if taller dudes are packin' more....well you know.


What say ye.....
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I've seen a midget guy during a rock show and he had this really hot, tall girlfriend (no sh1t).
So I guess when it comes to this, size doesn't matter... Some women love tall guys, some love 'em small, some don't care at all.
 

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Wee I did :D
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by Parsifal
I've seen a midget guy during a rock show and he had this really hot, tall girlfriend (no sh1t).
So I guess when it comes to this, size doesn't matter... Some women love tall guys, some love 'em small, some don't care at all.
I had a few classes with a midget guy in college. And no joke, this guy was the center of attention with all the chicks.
 

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Women want guys who are taller than them usually.

Tall women are an easy lay-btw if you're tall.They don't have that much to choose from as most of us want smaller women.
 

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Originally posted by Parsifal
I've seen a midget guy during a rock show and he had this really hot, tall girlfriend (no sh1t).
So I guess when it comes to this, size doesn't matter... Some women love tall guys, some love 'em small, some don't care at all.
You're using generalizations base on one example? I know many girls who are a little obsessed about height who have dated all men 6'+. Overall it's not a big problem, but some girls are shallow about height and will only date faily tall people. If they are, who cares let them choose to do as they wish. Their loss. That's the kind of mindset you should have about this....not wallow in being "too short".
 

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Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
Women want guys who are taller than them usually.

Tall women are an easy lay-btw if you're tall.They don't have that much to choose from as most of us want smaller women.
quoted for the truth.
 

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I think that is rubbish. If a woman is hot, no matter what size she is men will give her attention. Besides very few women are over 6 foot and there are lots of guys over 6 foot who aren't bothered by their height as they are taller than them. Personally all the girls i go for tend to be at least 5"10 and if anything i get more success with smaller girls.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Matt Rogers
I think that is rubbish. If a woman is hot, no matter what size she is men will give her attention. Besides very few women are over 6 foot and there are lots of guys over 6 foot who aren't bothered by their height as they are taller than them. Personally all the girls i go for tend to be at least 5"10 and if anything i get more success with smaller girls.
what the dude was saying is that woman sometimes prefer people who are actually taller than them which limits the possible number of guys that she would usually go for.

so say a girl is 5 9, some guys are uncomforatble with girls that are as tall or taller than them.

but the hell do i know, im 6' 1"
 

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It's just a matter of preference, but in my experience, girls usually prefer guys who are taller than them. Height makes you more dominating. I have seen where it's the other way around (the chick is taller than the guy), but the guy was whipped like butter.
 

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Right.. Mostly these days, woman preffers taller guys because they show dominance and the girls could lean on them. That's the biggest disadvantage of being a short guy but still, it depends on the woman.
 

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I have to disagree with you..I am 5 foot 7...and Ive pulled many more girls than taller guys..I know I am natural good looking person..but still..domance and size have some correlation..but its ur attitude and personality that decide that
 

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who f'kn cares?....besides you?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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