"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'm 5'9 and pretty comfortable with my height. Was wondering though if taller dudes are packin' more....well you know.


What say ye.....
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I've seen a midget guy during a rock show and he had this really hot, tall girlfriend (no sh1t).
So I guess when it comes to this, size doesn't matter... Some women love tall guys, some love 'em small, some don't care at all.
 

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Wee I did :D
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Parsifal
I've seen a midget guy during a rock show and he had this really hot, tall girlfriend (no sh1t).
So I guess when it comes to this, size doesn't matter... Some women love tall guys, some love 'em small, some don't care at all.
I had a few classes with a midget guy in college. And no joke, this guy was the center of attention with all the chicks.
 

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Women want guys who are taller than them usually.

Tall women are an easy lay-btw if you're tall.They don't have that much to choose from as most of us want smaller women.
 

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Originally posted by Parsifal
I've seen a midget guy during a rock show and he had this really hot, tall girlfriend (no sh1t).
So I guess when it comes to this, size doesn't matter... Some women love tall guys, some love 'em small, some don't care at all.
You're using generalizations base on one example? I know many girls who are a little obsessed about height who have dated all men 6'+. Overall it's not a big problem, but some girls are shallow about height and will only date faily tall people. If they are, who cares let them choose to do as they wish. Their loss. That's the kind of mindset you should have about this....not wallow in being "too short".
 

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Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
Women want guys who are taller than them usually.

Tall women are an easy lay-btw if you're tall.They don't have that much to choose from as most of us want smaller women.
quoted for the truth.
 

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I think that is rubbish. If a woman is hot, no matter what size she is men will give her attention. Besides very few women are over 6 foot and there are lots of guys over 6 foot who aren't bothered by their height as they are taller than them. Personally all the girls i go for tend to be at least 5"10 and if anything i get more success with smaller girls.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Matt Rogers
I think that is rubbish. If a woman is hot, no matter what size she is men will give her attention. Besides very few women are over 6 foot and there are lots of guys over 6 foot who aren't bothered by their height as they are taller than them. Personally all the girls i go for tend to be at least 5"10 and if anything i get more success with smaller girls.
what the dude was saying is that woman sometimes prefer people who are actually taller than them which limits the possible number of guys that she would usually go for.

so say a girl is 5 9, some guys are uncomforatble with girls that are as tall or taller than them.

but the hell do i know, im 6' 1"
 

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It's just a matter of preference, but in my experience, girls usually prefer guys who are taller than them. Height makes you more dominating. I have seen where it's the other way around (the chick is taller than the guy), but the guy was whipped like butter.
 

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Right.. Mostly these days, woman preffers taller guys because they show dominance and the girls could lean on them. That's the biggest disadvantage of being a short guy but still, it depends on the woman.
 

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I have to disagree with you..I am 5 foot 7...and Ive pulled many more girls than taller guys..I know I am natural good looking person..but still..domance and size have some correlation..but its ur attitude and personality that decide that
 

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who f'kn cares?....besides you?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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