"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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zinc4

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not good for best results if you are really stoned...but can be fun if you don't get paranoid easily...i don't smoke anymore but anyone saying weed and women don't mix are crazy....i have had some of the best sex in my life high as hell...it's like you are f^cking her inside a movie and banging every square inch of her body....and the orgasms for me last much longer...weed makes both food and sex amazing in my experience..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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AriMamba

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great posts

exactly what i was looking for since i didnt ask if i should quit weed or not thanks for the help fellas but can you explain ace pot smoker?
 

Deep Dish

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bigneil:
Weed and women don't mix.
zinc4:
i don't smoke anymore but anyone saying weed and women don't mix are crazy....i have had some of the best sex in my life high as hell...it's like you are f^cking her inside a movie and banging every square inch of her body....and the orgasms for me last much longer...weed makes both food and sex amazing in my experience..
I agree with both of you. Weed doesn't mix with game (I forget everything), but it does mix with doggy style. The one time it does mix with game are stoner chicks.
 

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2 situations it works for me:

1. if me and the girl are both high/smoked together (already been talked about)

2. if im pretty drunk when i go to smoke. then it gives me this awesome burst of euphoria, I come back to the party ready to dance and talk to women (for a while, before I slow down)
 

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I use to be a pothead, until I realize I needed it for everything, and it was making me overweight and lazy. Haven't done it since 2006, and won't go back to it ever again, weed is not a miracle drug, if anything it is a crutch for thousands of people out there that think they need it to improve them, when actually its all in the persons mind when their high.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Fatal Jay said:
I use to be a pothead, until I realize I needed it for everything, and it was making me overweight and lazy. Haven't done it since 2006, and won't go back to it ever again, weed is not a miracle drug, if anything it is a crutch for thousands of people out there that think they need it to improve them, when actually its all in the persons mind when their high.

HEY take your negativity out of here i dont see an answer to my question if you have nothing to say about my question then dont comment men ... for fcuk sakes im sick and tired of this bs if you dont like weed is your choice idc man but dont feed me no bull**** just so you can feel better i have no problem with it....
 

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Espi said:
You should experiment for yourself, though. Everyone's unique. See how it affects you and go from there.

Will do and i will report back what happens...
 

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Dunno. I did it one time. Talked all metaphysical and basically explained the spirit realm to a girl I had met...
She's a bit of a weirdo as well, though.
Worked out. Now she's on my jock 24/7 and it's kind of crazy.
I wouldn't say that works with every girl, though.
 

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Just depends if you can handle your ****. ;) That's it. As long as you don't close up, you could talk about anything. The two of you are high.

SOME kids can sarge high whether they're pursuing stoner chicks or not. But these aren't common. Pot affects different people in different ways. In extroverts, it doesn't really slow them down. Anyone who's a thinker, though, usually clams up if they don't pace themselves.

Now, don't think you'll ever come off as intelligent and witty when you're real high, but if they like to smoke, too, it's not like their expectations are going to be in that field anyway when the both of you are lit.
 

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Its hard...because when I'm high I take about stuff that is irrelevant...

On top of that your eyes will be low and red which unless she is a stoner girl is not attractive at all
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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