"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Talking to girls HIGH
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
SirFratserlot
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
1. if me and the girl are both high/smoked together (already been talked about)
2. if im pretty drunk when i go to smoke. then it gives me this awesome burst of euphoria, I come back to the party ready to dance and talk to women (for a while, before I slow down)
Fatal Jay
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Fatal Jay said:
HEY take your negativity out of here i dont see an answer to my question if you have nothing to say about my question then dont comment men ... for fcuk sakes im sick and tired of this bs if you dont like weed is your choice idc man but dont feed me no bull**** just so you can feel better i have no problem with it....
Sneevox
Senior Don Juan
She's a bit of a weirdo as well, though.
Worked out. Now she's on my jock 24/7 and it's kind of crazy.
I wouldn't say that works with every girl, though.
Swampcamel
Don Juan
That's it. As long as you don't close up, you could talk about anything. The two of you are high.SOME kids can sarge high whether they're pursuing stoner chicks or not. But these aren't common. Pot affects different people in different ways. In extroverts, it doesn't really slow them down. Anyone who's a thinker, though, usually clams up if they don't pace themselves.
Now, don't think you'll ever come off as intelligent and witty when you're real high, but if they like to smoke, too, it's not like their expectations are going to be in that field anyway when the both of you are lit.
irocknike23
Senior Don Juan
On top of that your eyes will be low and red which unless she is a stoner girl is not attractive at all
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.